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Hello , how are you ? Good ? Well , that’s great. I’m fine as well , today’s blog will be about ‘Self Love.’ It’s a pretty realistic topic that nobody really addresses, there are so many individuals who LITERALLY HATE THEMSELVES AND THE BODIES THAT THEY’RE IN. Society gives off a ‘perfect’ image of beauty, life, love and etc . Could you imagine if somebody came to you and told you that you’re not “popping” simply , because you’re not wearing a 27in Brazilian weave , face isn’t loaded on with makeup, you’re not wearing fashion Nova’s top picks and the latest of latest trends ? Lol Our society is RUINED. Everyone has been brainwashed one way or another, girls think it’s normal to walk around everyday , all week, all month , all year , every season (yes I’m dragging it ) with MAKEUP on simply because they just can’t EMBRACE their ‘true BEAUTY ‘ they rather hide flaws, all their scars , bags, darks spots , acne, etc . And I most certainly comprehend that some people suffer from Acne (like myself here ) and may have some major trust issues about it , BUT covering your scars EVERYDAY isn’t going to make them run away mamas. You must first learn have to LOVE IT , EMBRACE IT , and TAKE CARE OF IT (after its on YOUR BODY) . Continuously covering your flaws with the use of dirt will not help you and than we have some females who don’t simply appreciate their bodies for NOTHING. Skinny girls bash themselves all the time because they’re not “thick” like chill mamie there was a whole era of skinny jawns lol , there was once a time where all the r&b singers were skinny sis . Just because it’s the era of the thickums doesn’t mean you’re worth less than them baby and if people keep asking you why “don’t you ever gain a lil weight?” Be a lil shady look at them and tell them “when will you start to love yourself and the body you’ve been blessed with ?” - that’s how you shut them up.
First key to self love is : solitude , now what does ‘solitude’ even mean some may ask , well basically it’s being able to be ALONE, by YOURSELF. Why is this the first key ? Boom , when you’re alone by yourself you tend to contemplate more . Good thoughts or bad thoughts, you’re still thinking and brings forth wisdom. If you can find a way to be at peace with YOURSELF for that time being and actually stare focuse at every aspects of your life , you’ll start to realize somethings. But that’s not what this is about , this is meanly about you embracing yourself at that moment, being your own happiness for that moment, creating POSITIVE THOUGHTS for yourself at that moment and never bringing yourself down within that moment.
Second key to self Love is : Compliments.
Compliment who ? Well , wanna take a guess ? BINGO ! You’re a winner if you guessed “yourself.” Yes , it’s all a mental thing really , your thoughts is your reality, if you’re telling yourself “I’m ugly , im fat , I’m a loser , I’ll never make it in life “ guess what ? That’s how you’ll see yourself and most likely how people will look at you too . Your thoughts creates your world and that’s why setting goals is so important. When you speak things upon yourself you’re simply acting like an alarm clock . Continuously alarming yourself of whatever it may be . So, take 5 mins of your time and tell yourself how great you are , you’re legitimately a one in a million being! How crazy is that . And if you’re every feeling down make sure to read “OPEN” on my blog.
These are the two Keys for today’s blog, make sure to come back tomorrow for another two and don’t think that I left my big girls out either . Even with the era of everyone wanting to be thick some people may still feel uncomfortable for having a little bit more flesh on their bodies as well . Insecurities is all in your head mamie, sometimes the thoughts we think about ourselves will hunt us for the rest of ourselves. Just because you’re a little bigger does not mean shit baby , we all come in different shapes and sizes. This world would’ve been so BORING if we all looked the same , Regardless of how you may look you’re still unbelievably BEAUTIFUL. No matter if you’re skinny , tall , fat, short , beauty is from within, the outside is just an image. Attract your true beauty from within and you’ll see how you’ll start to blossom like a flower . Hope nothing but peace and happiness for everyone. Thanks for reading, love you babes .
LúJ.
First key to self love is : solitude , now what does ‘solitude’ even mean some may ask , well basically it’s being able to be ALONE, by YOURSELF. Why is this the first key ? Boom , when you’re alone by yourself you tend to contemplate more . Good thoughts or bad thoughts, you’re still thinking and brings forth wisdom. If you can find a way to be at peace with YOURSELF for that time being and actually stare focuse at every aspects of your life , you’ll start to realize somethings. But that’s not what this is about , this is meanly about you embracing yourself at that moment, being your own happiness for that moment, creating POSITIVE THOUGHTS for yourself at that moment and never bringing yourself down within that moment.
Second key to self Love is : Compliments.
Compliment who ? Well , wanna take a guess ? BINGO ! You’re a winner if you guessed “yourself.” Yes , it’s all a mental thing really , your thoughts is your reality, if you’re telling yourself “I’m ugly , im fat , I’m a loser , I’ll never make it in life “ guess what ? That’s how you’ll see yourself and most likely how people will look at you too . Your thoughts creates your world and that’s why setting goals is so important. When you speak things upon yourself you’re simply acting like an alarm clock . Continuously alarming yourself of whatever it may be . So, take 5 mins of your time and tell yourself how great you are , you’re legitimately a one in a million being! How crazy is that . And if you’re every feeling down make sure to read “OPEN” on my blog.
These are the two Keys for today’s blog, make sure to come back tomorrow for another two and don’t think that I left my big girls out either . Even with the era of everyone wanting to be thick some people may still feel uncomfortable for having a little bit more flesh on their bodies as well . Insecurities is all in your head mamie, sometimes the thoughts we think about ourselves will hunt us for the rest of ourselves. Just because you’re a little bigger does not mean shit baby , we all come in different shapes and sizes. This world would’ve been so BORING if we all looked the same , Regardless of how you may look you’re still unbelievably BEAUTIFUL. No matter if you’re skinny , tall , fat, short , beauty is from within, the outside is just an image. Attract your true beauty from within and you’ll see how you’ll start to blossom like a flower . Hope nothing but peace and happiness for everyone. Thanks for reading, love you babes .
LúJ.
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